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Conflict-engendered Widows

Small Expectations

- Anju Chhetri

“We always keep hoping that someone will come to support us. You are the fourth group that has come to see and understand our condition. Whoever come to us, we expect that they will render some help for our children’s education,” says Krishna BC, a mother of five children.

On March 20, 2003, early in the morning, the state security forces arrested nine people of Chhing village located in Syalapakha-3, Rukum  from their own homes accusing them of being the Maoists. The security forces took the alleged Maoists to Kaildeu village, shot them dead and threw their bodies on the bank of a small river nearby. This incident at once made eight women of the same village widow. Among the people murdered, one was  Krishna’s husband Tek Bahadur BC who was a school teacher. Three and a half years have passed since the incident. All the widows have their own house in the village and their life is going on somehow, however, each of them has a worry about whether they could provide education to their children or not.

More than 13 thousand people have died during the decade of violent conflict. It is speculated that at least six thousand women have become widows due to the conflict. But, how many children the widows have, not even a guess has been made in this regard. Till date, the group that has acquired compensation, relief and facility from the state comprises only the families of state security personnel and the families whose members were killed by the Maoists. The common people whose family members were killed by the state security forces for  being a Maoist or in a cross-fire do not have any access to the relief provided by the state. Therefore, Krishna did not belong to the group that was entitled to get immediate relief from the state because her husband, an alleged Maoist, was killed by the state security forces; though she believes that he was not a Maoist.

Now, as the state is moving forward in the peace process, a voice has been raised that the people who will come to the center of the state-power should make it their foremost responsibility to provide justice to thousands of widows like Krishna and their children who suffered from indirect violence caused by either the state or the insurgents. Pampha Bhusal, a central committee member of the Communist Party of Nepal (Maoist), explaining the party’s plan on providing relief to the people victimized by the state, which is to come to effect after her party joins the Interim Government, expresses her commitment, “Immediately after our party joins the Interim Government we will provide much more relief and facilities than the old regime to our people whose family members became martyr or were made to disappear in the war or who had suffered mutilation. We will make an arrangement for the livelihood of their families and their children’s education.”

Expressing commitment in favor of sufferers is appreciable. However, some leaders at the central level have not made earnest efforts to understand the fragility of the situation. Therefore, they should not utter biased statement like ‘we will provide much more relief and facility than the old regime to our people

Even after the Maoists join the interim government, the program for relief and rehabilitation has to come by the common agreement between all parties representing in the government. Therefore, instead of saying ‘our’ and ‘their’ sufferers, today’s need is to become conscientious of providing justice to all the sufferers of the conflict. During the wartime, the compensation, relief and facility provided then by the government to the women whose husbands were killed by the insurgents was not reasonable.

The state, so far, has been providing compensation, relief and facility to the sufferers of conflict through the Ganesh Man Peace Campaign under the Ministry of Home. In due course, the compensation of 7 hundred 50 thousand rupees has been provided to each wife or family of the security personnel who lost their life in the war or clash. The provisions for the arrangement of the pension and salary for the army, armed police and civil police are different. The families of the security personnel who were entrusted for safeguarding the state and controlling the violent acts of the insurgents have attained compensation and relief sufficient for running a family of simple Nepali standard. However, due to the pain caused by the untimely death of dear ones, the relief enough though to run a family has not given happiness to them. 

The families of the ordinary people  and political activists who were killed by the Maoists have been given 1 hundred 50 thousand rupees each as a relief and compensation. There is a provision of giving scholarship to the children of all those who have been bereaved by the Maoists. However, the scholarship has not been distributed in a systematic way. Only the children of those who are vociferous and have connections with the authorities have been able to get the scholarship. This scholarship distributed under a program of the Ganesh Man Peace Campaign was given to 1,002 students last year, and in the year before that, it was given to 997 students.

First the district administration office at the local level makes a recommendation for scholarship grant and it is issued to the office after it is approved by the center or the ministry in Kathmandu. In August-September, 2006, some widows of the security personnel of Banke, Dang and Surkhet came to Kathmandu, and surrounded the finance minister demanding scholarship for their children. “We did not know which ministry was responsible for making decision on scholarship grants, so we surrounded  the finance minister. But, we knew later that the Home Ministry was responsible for issuing the grants,” complains Shova BC, the president of the Conflict-Afflicted Single Women's Network, Banke. Those widows of the security personnel who took pains to come to Kathmandu were able to get scholarship grants for their children.

For the children of conflict-afflicted families, the government has made a provision to give scholarship grant of Rs. 5,000 per year up to class five; Rs. 12,000 per year up to class 10; Rs. 14,000 per year up to intermediate level; and Rs. 20,000 per year up to master level. But, the fact is that all the conflict-afflicted children do not have an easy access to the scholarship. Even some of the widows of security personnel were able to get the facility only after a lenthy struggle. The children of the common people afflicted by the conflict hardly ever have access to the scholarship.

Since the office of The Ganesh Man Peace Campaign has not maintained  the systematic records of the people who have acquired compensation and relief, explicit statistics are not available on how many conflict-spawned widows have acquired the facility. The government should keep systematic records in this regard, and it is necessary to make a lot of improvement in the process of distributing the relief and compensation. There are also complaints that while distributing compensation and relief  by the concerned authorities (the relief distribution departments of the police and the army) many of the widows of security personnel have been insulted. This illustrates that the state and the concerned authorities are not sensitive toward conflict-afflicted people 

Group of Specific Widows

The violent conflict has produced a large community of war-created widows of a distinctive kind in Nepali society, and even that community also has sub-divisions. Among these widows, everyone has her own particular experience and pains. The widows and other family-members of those who are directly involved in insurgency  firmly believe that when the Maoists form the government, they will make all the arrangements for them and their children. The widows of these directly involved in the war had already anticipated they would face problem and misery any time in their life. Therefore, they have little complaints about the situation they are in. Since they live in villages, they are able to make simple arrangement for their livelihood. Some of the widows of Rolpa have sent their children to the school being run by the Maoists in Thawang. However, the situation is not the same in other areas.

There is a widespread rage among the widows of those who were killed by the state just for being ordinary supporters of the Maoists. The number of such widows whose family has been completely destroyed, is also much larger. These widows who were killed by the insurgents think that the insurgency was the sole cause of their grief. They are trying to reassemble their family broken into pieces. Moreover, they are struggling to acquire the government scholarship for their children, hoping that some other organisations, too, will come forward to support them.

The district offices of the Women Development Department had distributed small amounts of relief in 15 conflict-affected districts to some women persecuted by the Maoists and the state in 2004-05. The non-governmental organizations like Sathi, B Group and Rara Human and Environmental Resource Development Venture have provided small relief and support to some conflict-spawned widows of Banke. However, in the districts dominated by the Maoists, organizations are hardly ever given permission to implement any program among the conflict-spawned widows.

Whatsoever, it is, now, expected that after the Maoists are included in the interim government, the conflict-afflicted women will be sorted, and relief and facility will be provided to them. The conflict-spawned widows and their families should be assured that they are given justice by the state inasmuch as its capacity. The people at the leadership positions, while engaging themselves in the big political issues like restructuring of the state and constituent assembly elections, must not forget the problems and pains of the conflict-spawned widows and their children. An arrangement for providing compensation, relief and facility should be made after the classification of the conflict-spawned widows, gathering their expectation from the state and understanding their present condition. Only then, it will be confirmed that the state has fulfilled its responsibility toward the conflict-spawned widows of every kind and their children.

- Nepal Samacharpatra, November 4, 2006, p. B

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